Dogs don’t dig hugs
Almost every dog owner loves to scoop up their furry companion for a big hug. It’s a natural way for us humans to show our affection. But here’s the truth—dogs don’t always share our enthusiasm. Do dogs like hugs? Not exactly. While they enjoy being loved, hugging isn’t universally their favourite gesture. That doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate other forms of affection, though! Here, we’ll explore why dogs may not love hugs, how hugs can stress dogs out, and how to show a dog you love them without overwhelming them.
Do hugs stress dogs out?
If you lift a dog to hug them, their paws are dangling off the ground and they have no control. They’re likely to feel a lack of control – and could feel uncomfortably squashed too.
Look at Instagram posts of people hugging their pups and you’ll probably spot dogs showing signs of being ill at ease, such as:
- Licking their lips
- Yawning
- Pinning their ears back
- Showing the whites of their eyes
- Turning their head to avoid eye contact
After they’ve been hugged, you might also see dogs shake themselves as though they’ve just had a bath. This is another clear sign that lets you know they didn’t enjoy the experience - a dog calmer may help.
A hug could count as risky behavior
When they’re stressed, dogs often like to run away from the situation. By hugging your pup close, you could be causing them anxiety and, at the same time, depriving them of the option to escape. And if they can’t get away, they might bite.
That’s why it’s really not a good idea to let children hug a hound. What’s more, children often squeeze dogs too tightly or put their face too close to the dog’s face – which could cause your pup to react sharply.
How to show your affection
You don’t need to hug or squeeze your canine best friend to make them feel good. There are so many other ways you can show a dog that you love them.
Most dogs are delighted just to be lying near your feet, wonderfully cushioned on their dog bed, with one eye open to make sure you’re not going anywhere.
Give them their special toy and they’ll be thrilled. Take them for a walk and they’ll be ecstatic. Play a game of fetch with them and they’ll be in heaven.
Pet, your pet – how to pet a dog
You can also show your dog you love them by stroking them, rather than giving them a full-body bear hug. This feels good for you and your pup, while allowing your dog more space and therefore a greater feeling of autonomy.
Some dogs dislike being stroked on the head or muzzle, and the belly can also be a no-go area for some. Instead, try tickling them under the chin, scratching their chest or stroking their lower back.
Hormones create the feel-good factor
Stroking your dog encourages your body to release oxytocin and dopamine – which both have a profound feel-good factor.
Dopamine, the happy hormone, is closely related to our feelings of satisfaction, achievement and pleasure. When we stroke our dog, dopamine lifts us up on a little cloud of euphoria. Plus, you could be increasing their dog dopamine too!
Meanwhile, oxytocin is a hormone that promotes feelings of love, bonding and wellbeing. When you pet your dog, it makes you feel more connected to your four-pawed friend, eases stress and helps you relax.
The calming effect of stroking a Labrador
As well as promoting bonding and feelings of wellbeing, stroking your dog can also decrease your levels of cortisol, which is often described as your body’s alarm system. Research from Sweden showed that people’s cortisol levels were significantly reduced after stroking their Labrador for between 15-30 minutes.
Social breeds keep in touch
Interestingly, working dogs may be particularly good at satisfying our hunger for touch. Meg Olmert, author of a book called ‘Made for Each Other: the biology of the human-animal bond’, says that breeds such as Labradors and Golden Retrievers may be more likely to seek out physical contact with us. This is because they’re highly sociable animals who are trained to focus on their owners.
What’s your pup’s preference?
Every dog is different, and their preferences can vary widely. Some might tolerate hugs while others avoid them completely. Pay attention to your dog’s signals to understand what they like.
Does your pup prefer a gentle scratch under the chin or a belly rub? Or do they light up when you bring out their favorite ball? Whatever it is, focusing on what your dog enjoys will strengthen your bond.
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